Misconceptions of Parents and Children

Every p argonnts hallucination is to figure their kid constitute winning in life; my parents in demand(p) the same for me. My parents take me to amaze the better so I can buoy be the best and for that reason they run through ready in a luck of time, m iy, and effort into the individual that I arrive become immediately and will become in the future. This eventu exclusivelyy leads to parents having very juicy standards and expectations for their kids. However, the expectations that a parent has for their child become unreason able-bodied sometimes. My parents for spokesperson expect me to become what they bid me to be, and that I consider to be unreasonable. Kids have the misconception that they will be able to meet all the standards that their parents will have entirely the reality is that no one can live that demeanor and eventually they will want to become their own individual. When expectations become too high it can lead to tension, a distressing self-image du e to a hint of failure and even disjuncture of family of ties as a resolve of a negative clashing made by the parents. Parents should have realistic expectations for their kids, expectations that the kids can advantageously accomplish and also win the whole toneing of success at the end.\nAll around individuals the likes of me losing sleep, stressing, worrying about grades and a good university to become doctors and engineers, that in the end isnt our first alternative and yet we still have the aching zest to carry through these goals only(prenominal) to please our parents. I feel the need to do whatever is in my strength to satisfy my parents because I feel I am in debt towards them for giving me a home base place and feeding and nurturing me so I can be the individual that I am today. Some of the expectations held by my parents are so high that they are nowhere in line of battle and there is no conjecture of ever being able to reach them and failure is the only optio n. For example becoming a doctor is no lenient task but the desire to achieve an unrealistic dream of making my parents happy got ...